Marah...

Berpikirlah terlebih dahulu apakah kita memang perlu marah...
atau cukupkah untuk menahan beberapa saat dan menanggapi amarah dengan senyuman...
agar semuanya tidak menjadi sia-sia...
Just read it.. ^-*

Bagaimana cara memancing kepiting ?
Kami menggunakan sebatang bambu, mengikatkan tali ke batang bambu itu, diujung lain tali itu kami mengikat sebuah batu kecil. Lalu kami mengayun bambu agar batu di ujung tali terayun menuju Kepiting yang kami incar, kami mengganggu Kepiting itu dengan batu, menyentak dan menyentak agar Kepiting marah, dan kalau itu berhasil maka kepiting itu akan 'menggigit' tali atau batu itu dengan geram, capitnya akan mencengkeram batu atau tali dengan kuat sehingga kami leluasa mengangkat bambu dengan ujung tali berisi seekor Kepiting gemuk yang sedang marah.
Kami tinggal mengayun perlahan bambu agar ujung talinya menuju sebuah wajan besar yang sudah kami isi dengan air mendidih karena di bawah wajan itu ada sebuah kompor dnegan api yang sedang menyala.
Kami celupkan Kepiting yang sedang murka itu ke dalam wajan tersebut, seketika Kepiting melepaskan gigitan dan tubuhnya menjadi merah, tak lama kemudian kami bisa menikmati Kepiting rebus yang sangat lezat.
Kepiting itu menjadi korban santapan kami karena kemarahannya, karena kegeramannya atas gangguan yang kami lakukan melalui sebatang bambu, seutas tali dan sebuah batu kecil.

Kita sering kali melihat banyak orang jatuh dalam kesulitan, menghadapi masalah, kehilangan peluang, kehilangan jabatan, bahkan kehilangan segalanya karena MARAH.
Jadi kalau kamu menghadapi gangguan, baik itu batu kecil atau batu besar, hadapilah dengan bijak, redam kemarahan sebisa mungkin, lakukan penundaan dua atau tiga detik dengan menarik napas panjang, kalau perlu pergilah ke kamar kecil, cuci muka atau basuhlah tangan dengan air dingin, agar murka kamu mereda dan kamu terlepas dari ancaman wajan panas yang bisa menghancurkan masa depanmu.

Today I will...

Today I will not strike back...
If someone is rude, if someone is impatient, if someone is unkind, I will not respond in a like manner.

Today I will ask God to bless my 'enemy'...
If I come across someone who treats me harshly or unfairly, I will quitely ask God to bless him/her. I understand 'enenmy' could be a family member, neighbour, co-worker or stranger.

Today I will be carefull about what I say...
I will carefully choose and guard my words being certain that I do not spread gossip.

Today I will go the extra mile...
I will find ways to help share the burden of another person.

Today I will forgive...
I will forgive any hurts or injuries that come on my way.

Today I will do something kind for someone...
I will reach out anonymously and bless the life of another.

Today I will treat others the way I wish to be treated...
I will practice the golden rule. "Do unto others as I would have them do unto me" with everyone I encounter.

Today I will raise the spirits of someone who is discouraged...
My smile, my words, my expression of support, can make the difference to someone who is wrestling with life.

Today I will nurture my body...
I will eat less... I will eat only healthy food... I will thank God for my body.

Today I will grow spiritually...
I will spend a little more time in prayer today. I will begin reading something spiritual or inspirational.
I will find a quiet place and listen to God's voice.

I hope... I will...

I am an Aquarians

You were fortunate enough to be born under the humanitarian zodiac sign of Aquarius. You're born revolutionary so no one can tell you how to live your life. Your clear-cut approach makes it perfectly clear just how differently you wish to experience life.
You just don't want to be like others and take pride in the fact that you're so unique. Even if you're occasionally criticized for your cheeky attitude, you'd far prefer to be self-sufficient rather than being a sheep in society who follows everyone else's lead.
You share your zodiac sign with many other grand personalities. Like them you are attracted to social issues. You like to be involved in groups and organizations that make a difference in society. Even in the smallest of ways, you will try to make some difference in this world.
Because you have great organizational and communication skills you work really well with others. You have your own ideas and solutions to problems. Other are surprised at your quirky approach and how you resolve these issues.
Communication is your speciality and you relate well to the world. You will continue to enlarge your active personality so don't try to suppress your true character - just express it prudently. You're vigorous in the way you present your ideas so there's never a dull moment around you. There's often someone who wants to challenges you, especially if they happen to have a much more conventional way of doing things. You'll be more than happy to challenge that taking great pleasure in proving them wrong.
There's a universal quality about you. Although you appear aloof and detached you're inwardly sensitive and caring. You prefer to associate with people who share the same diverse views on life. Your life will almost certainly never be drab. You are able to embrace anything including music and fashion. This is why you'll always be young at heart.
They are tireless workers and ar willing to work for what they want, and do not demand more than their fair share. They read character instinctively, and for this reason they "see through" people too easily to be really happy.
They are usually high-strung, and their nerves are generally overwrought. This people often lose control and then say or do things that they bitterly regret later.
They are generally very active for the public good, and often give all they have to relieve the distress of others.
They are good thinkers, and are very successful when it comes to debate and argument, and difficult to convince.
They are excellent in bussiness and finace when they apply their minds to such things, but usually they are more successful for others, and make more money for other people than for themselves. Such people are a seekers of knowledge, rational, open minded, gifted with breadth of vision.
If people born in this sign manage overcame their sensitiveness and developed their will-power, there is no position they would not be able to attain. They are usually successful in some large sphere of action, where they can feel their responsibility for others. As an idealist Aquarians would like to see that everybody is happy and their ambition is to do something important and meaningful.
They take a great interest in public meetings, gatherings of people, and public ceremonies.
As a lover these people are full of surprises. They simply cannot be happy or fulfilled unless they are free to do as they like. No matter how deeply in love these people may be, they are never willing to sacrifice their autonomy, but they always put honesty ahead of romance.

The Faithful Dog

The dog person is loyal, sincere, honest, faithful, devoted, and strong. They can keep a secret, respect traditions, and enjoy helping others and so make trustworthy friends. Straightforward types, they can't understand why people are bother with being petty and ridiculous at times. If they had it their way, they would spend the day fixing the world's problems.

You can always count on dog person to speak up about what's important to them and what their views are on things. They fight from the heart. As they tend to believe strongly in the truth, speak out againts injustice, and identify with the underdog, they are natural lawyers.

However, when rubbed the wrong way, dog people can be defensive and picky. When panicked, a dog can turn nasty and bark until tired. They are serious people who complain and worry, but they mellow with age.

Although dogs are never the life of a party, they are intelligent, caring, and good listeners. They make agreeable companions.

In relationship, the dog person is the giver and the partner is the taker. The best partner for a dog is a horse, tiger, or pig. Relationship with a rabbit, rat, snacke, or monkey will work ok. Relationship with an ox, dragon, sheep, rooster, or another dog are possible, but difficult

My Pray

O... Lord
I pray for a man that will be a part of my life
A man that really loves You more than everything
A man that will make me the second best in his heart
A man that lives not for himself but for You

Face and physical attraction is not important
Just give me the best for my life
The most important is
I want a heart that really loves and thirsty of You
And has a desire to be like Jesus
And he must know for whom and for what he lives
So his life is not useless

Someone that has a wise heart not only a smart brain
A man that loves me but also respects me
A man that not only can adore me but can warn me when I'm wrong
A man that loves me not for my beauty but for my heart
A man that can be the best friend in every time and situations
A man that makes me feel like a woman when I beside him

I'm not asking a perfect man
But I'm asking for an imperfect man instead
So I can make him perfect in Your eyes
A man that needs my support for his strength
A man that need my prayer for his life
A man that needs my smile to cover his sadness
A man that needs my love so he could feel beloved
A man that needs me to makes his life perfect

And I also ask, make me to be a woman that can made him proud
Give me a heart that really loves You
so I could love him with Your love, not love him with my love
Give me your gentle spirit
so my beauty won't come from my appearance but come from You
Give me your hands that enable me to pray for him always
Give me Your eyes
so I could see many good things in him and not the bad one
Give me Your mouth
that fulfilled with Your words of wisdom and encouragement
So I could support him every day
Give me Your lips
and I will smile at him every morning
and I want that when finally we meet both of us can say
"How Great Thou Art."

I believe that You will give me someone that can make my life perfect
I know that You want us to meet at the right time
And You will make everything beautiful in Your time
Amen..


--thanks for Grace that made this great prayer--